Twenties are challenging years and they are never easy for anyone, and never will be. When it is the beginning of your twenties, you have no idea about how to live your life and what the world around you is actually like! You will trust everyone; you will think you know everything, but then you will fall and realise how wrong you have been.
During this time, everyone around you will be filled with advice, yet you won’t feel like listening to them. Sometimes, it may make you feel as you don’t even belong there! But, don’t jump off the cliff yet, the twenties is the time to grow and know how to live in this messy world with peace of mind.
During the twenties, It is a time to develop good manners and personal traits which will build the strong and firm foundation for your years to come in this age and for eternity.
I have tried to enlist the ten life goals to cherish in the twenties which will by certain amount aid you to find your true success and happiness as you live your life at the twenties.
Find your passion and follow it.
Find your passion. Figure out the things you love to do. Find what is important to you specifically. Everyone starts working and enrol in jobs right away, and then, they feel stuck. If you want to be successful in your life and move up the succes ladder you need to be passionate about your work. You need to be motivated and driven to be the best you can be regardless of your job or your work. Figure out your passion and follow it, then success will follow.
Add something new to your life
During twenties, it is time for you to learn something which will stay with you forever. Something which will add value to your life. Learn the musical instrument which you always wanted to or the type of sports and games you always wished to know. Challenge yourself with new skills as it will help you in boosting your self-esteem required for later stages.
Start and continue reading those books which will impart you with the knowledge and life principles. Learn leadership skills, contest for a leadership position available in your setting. Learn entrepreneurship skills. Start a project and run it. I assure you will encounter complexities in the process but I encourage you that you will pick valuable insights from these encounters.
Chase the Dream
If you don’t have dreams, you better find one and then chase it! Otherwise, one day you will wake up, having no idea what you are supposed to do. Dreams serve a purpose in life, something you can work for and something you want to live for. Don’t be satisfied with the dreams which just come to you while you are sleeping.
Total Body Fitness
Start taking care of yourself. It is time to drop out the unhealthy lifestyles. Intergrate in your life the heathful principles. Eat healthily.Engage in active physical exercises. Stay away from alcohol, cigarettes and other forms of drug abuse, If you have started these unhealthy habits, I encourage you to start afresh. If you stay healthy now, it will help you with ageing and even help you continue this schedule all through life. Thus, it would serve you benefits in the longer run, right?
Travel the world.
Either alone or with your friends, but one must travel the world in their twenties. It is the fittest age and helps you explore your options regarding the career as well. You meet new people while you travel and get ideas about numerous ways you can live your life. Paint the world with your footsteps, I suggest and open your mind to new experiences.
Build Meaningful Relationships.
Believe it or not, but real friendships do last. Believe it or not, You need people to achieve significant succeses in your life. You just need the right people. You just need to invest in those when the times are hard, which means the 20s! Take out time to socialise as you will not be able to find close friends in the later ages of your life. In the twenties, you will at one time get the vision of building the family. You can start strengthening the intersex relationship in order to explore the lifemate suitable for you. Get the people right, then you will get the culture right.
Bring a Change
Do something to help the needy, be it the people or the stray animals that get no food. You can work for a cause as the world is filled with horrible conditions and horrible human beings. Be a smart person and do something which creates an impact in making the world a little bit better. If you don’t, then who else will? As they say, “Change starts with you.” It will also help you feel worthwhile and good about yourself.
Get Away From People Who Bring You Down
People who disrespect you should have no space in your life. Move away from them as quickly as possible. You must know yourself worth and should not let anyone be the reason for your tears. There is a long life ahead; you will move on and thus, being in relationships that don’t make you happy, is not worthwhile.
It does not necessarily mean knowing what you want, but it is good enough if you know what you DO NOT. It is time to say No to whatever doesn’t feel right to you. Explore your talents and your preferences. Pursue your hobbies and know ways which can make you happy on your own. Finding yourself means loving yourself, till death parts you, from you.
Strengthen your personal relationship with God
You need to build a strong relationship with God. Be a spiritual person, Live the basic religious principles you have learned since your childhood. Learn to depend entirely on the Almighty. Start learning the spiritual truth and embrace it. Take a firm stand in the word of God. All these practices will strengthen your spiritual life and God will help you to attain such incorruptible character for eternity and this will take you down on the road to true success.